Weight loss Goal

Out of so many topic we talked about one of the topic was always about weight loss. It seems that both of us have yet to achieve the desire body we dream off. For me I used to be big, very big and yes I was happy because I don’t really give a care about what others said to me. Until one day my leg start to feel pain and what make it worse was my spine hurts! Did when to consult doctors and all the time they always says its due to my weight.

2016 – I was 108kg

I started going for walk, swimming even though I don’t know how to but all I did was paddling laps hope to strengthen my back and it did. I did try Zumba and I was loving it! at the same time I look after what I ate. I did lose gradually. I keep motivating myself.

During one of the Zumba session.

After about a year and a half. I manage to drop from 108kg to 88kg. I was so happy! I need a wardrobe makeover and all.

At 88kg!

For his case, he used to go gym with his friends and motivating each other to lose weight and build up his body. At that point of time we didn’t know each other. We were totally stranger. He told me his story. Without fail he everyday it was gym after work and he cooked his own food and look after what went into his mouth. When he showed me his 2016 pictures I was shock. His body to me was nice and I loved it. (I still am in love with him now, anyway no matter how he looks! :D)

This is my Man! πŸ™‚

Eventually he told me after his friends resign from work, he lack motivation to keep fit alone and so he slacked to be how he is now. To keep the story short, we both gain a few kg after that. Then when both of us meet and then we fall in love and in a relationship, he gain more weight due to that every time I can’t finish my food I gave it to him! Sorry love! For me I got stagnant.

This is us now, weighing at 91kg and 93kg!

We make a promise that we will motivates and encourage each other to get back how we use to look like. Its not about being vain. It about health. For my case I was diagnose with Diabetes type 2 and by losing more weight I believe it will go away and kept in control. For his case, he just want to prevent from being sick and being healthy for us. We then make a pact! πŸ˜€ Starting from now we will try our best, encourage and motivates each other. Hoping as well that by our big day soon, we will look more smaller then now.

October 2018

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Surveying for Tour Info

Our weekend was spent by going out and about to survey for Tour Agency. It actually happens when we both just could not make up our mind where we wanted to go for our Honeymoon. At first we thought of Korea (I have been for 3x already and I dont mind going again! πŸ™‚ I will post about it soon I guess) then we changed our mind to Japan instead. After checking their weather, he commented that he wants to go to some where cooling. It is going to Summer for Korea and Japan in August.

I did a lot of googling then we thought of Australia, maybe Sydney, Brisbane, Melbourne or even Gold Coast. Tentatively we agreed on Australia but then some financial issues came about and we again change our mind. Somewhere nearby like Bali or Bandung so well I am ok with anything as long we able to spent time together. Unexpectedly one day he asked me “how about Dubai?” I replied him with a LOL! I told him from Korea, Japan, Australia, Bali, Bandung and now Dubai?. We both then laugh!

After lots of discussion and negotiations we agreed to survey some Tour Agency, asked them for advice and from there we can see if there is any that is within our Budget.

We meet and straight to Chinatown, there is a lot of Tour Agency in Chinatown. We went for a few and some even recommended us for Europe Tour which was way within our Budget. How I wish we could though, I wanted to see my Harry Potter and he would love to go to Old Trafford!, Anyway sidetrack, Man U is coming to Singapore in July to be exact a week before our Wedding. I thought of getting the ticket for him as an advanced birthday present but then to my biggest disappointment, within a few hours of the public sales it went POOF! ALL SOLD OUT! Really pissed!

Ok anyway, we manage to get all the info we need and we agreed to once more discuss which country we might go and then stick to it! No more changing. After walking around Chinatown, we go for dinner then movie and then back home. It was a good day and we really enjoy ourselves since nowadays we seldom go on dates. He was busy mostly working plus he did lots of overtime in order to save more for our wedding, which I was really thankful for but this time he really need a smack on his butt from me! he overworked and got fever. I felt bad but was very worried. (I know you will read this love! :p)

Just now we have already agreed where we going to go for our honeymoon! Yay! So now I need to go back and do more research about that place, plan out the itinerary, tours, hotel and all sort. He normally leave all these to me cause he knew I love doing it and he of course he handles all those money! πŸ˜€

I’m going to leave some pictures of us we took yesterday and yes I’m signing off now. πŸ˜€

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First Date of 2019

This is kind of a late post actually but even so I want to post it, since it has been a while that we dated. We are now busy with work and he working shift its kind of hard to have a proper date. Anyway this picture was taken in January. I cannot really remember the date though. Our first stop was Sentosa, just walking around and act like we some kind of tourist. LOL.

Behind us is just a dirty Merlion!
Just our random selfie

After walking around for a little while longer, he went to play luge alone. Yes alone as I am kind of afraid of height. We need to take that sky ride all the way up before we went down using a small cart car of some sort. He did have fun, as long he is happy I am happy too! πŸ™‚

I am afraid of this! call me lame! :/
There he is looking happy! πŸ˜€

From Sentosa, we went to Esplanade to walk around and sat down to talk about random stuff. We ate at Noosh and again I forgot to take pictures. -.-

Ending the night with one more selfie. πŸ˜€

I told him that I am in need for another date night maybe just a nice dinner, movie or just walking around aimlessly at night OR maybe he can surprise me with something (I know you will read this so ya its a HINT!).

I am missing him badly as I wrote this blog, wishing that he is next to me and giving me ideas about what more to blog about or just being irritatingly disturbing lying next to me. I miss you baby.

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The Night Out with Family

23/03/2019

My sister family from JB came over for a visit over the weekend so we brought them out over town. We went o Esplanade to take nice photos then sit and chillax.

It was a nice night even though the weather was super hot. Anyway the temperature in Singapore at these right moment is hot, terribly hot! No matter what we still have a good time after walking around until her leg hurts we sat at Makansutra for a light supper. We shared satays, tahu goreng, kway teow goreng and roti john. (sigh! didn’t took any photos of the food!)

the one on the right is my sister from Jb, the one on the left, i used to stay with her.

I am glad that she is happy and enjoying herself as she is not well, living with kidney failure and have to get dialysis every 3 days. She is always weak after that. She suffered a lot but she is one strong woman that I knew of and I am proud of her for being positive always.

This is her daughter, my niece…

Even though we didn’t stay that late outside, we really enjoy ourselves, eating and laughing all the way. Maybe the next I might visit her in JB with my fiancΓ© .

Happy Night~~

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Zentangle

I love arts. I love to draw even though I am not that really good at it but I still love it. Recently I came across Zentangle. Its not hard to do. It is easy and you just need to be creative on your own. It is relaxing to me actually. So from 1 Zentangle to another and I think I have created a few now. Below is some Zentangle that I did.

You do not need to be an Artist to be creative. Talent is just a bonus if you have though but other than that just take a piece of paper and a pencil just start doodling. You might not know what that doodle might came out to be.

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Intro (About Us)

While we both we texting each other, he randomly asked me. If I were interested to do blog as he knew I love writing. I explained that I used to do it last time but then getting lazy so then I stop.

He then said “Why not start it again? you love writing and you also can blog about anything you like, and I can give you ideas what you can blog about as well.”

And so therefore I start this again, named it after us and of course the journey that both of us going to venture present and future.

Thank you love for your motivation, ideas and encouragement. ❀

Anyway here is more about us:

We both work indirectly related. He drives the Train and I work as an Admin for the construction of the New Train tunnel and station. Our age gap, 2 years apart. We were introduce by someone unexpected and without knowing we got the chemistry and things go smoothly thereafter. We got engaged after dating for 5 months and now both of us are excitingly waiting for our big day.

He love soccer (Man U supporter) and he also a wrestling freak (totally opposite, I love reading, drawing and of course writing). He hate superhero movie, fantasy movie and love singing reality shows (Again totally opposite, I love superhero movie, Captain Marvel is my favorite as of now and oh I love Harry Potter!). He likes love song whether it is English or Malay (it just so so for me, I love rock, English and of course K pop songs!). Food, well it seems whatever I cooked, he just ate and be grateful. Oh he hates Cucumber and I love it, I hate Tomatoes and he love it. hah! We both love chicken! We loving hanging out and Netflix at home.

If I were to continue I guess its going to make this page much longer. Anyway that’s somehow are stuff about us.

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Ella